Community Guidelines
Last updated 25 September 2026
Chitmet works because people show up as themselves and treat strangers well. These are the rules everyone agrees to.
Be an adult, talk to adults
Everyone here is 18+. If someone says or clearly seems to be under 18, end the conversation and report them under “Underage User”. Do not continue the chat.
Consent comes first
- Do not send sexual content or requests unless the other adult clearly wants that conversation.
- Media (photos, videos, voice notes) can only be sent after the other person taps Allow Media. “Not now” means not now.
- “Next” and “End” mean the conversation is over. Do not try to find or follow the person elsewhere.
No harassment, hate or threats
Insults, slurs, threats, doxxing, or targeting someone for their race, religion, gender, sexuality, disability or nationality gets you removed. Disagreement is fine; contempt is not.
No spam, scams or links you wouldn't click yourself
No advertising, crypto pitches, “investment opportunities”, romance scams, phishing, or repeated copy-paste messages. Suspicious links are flagged automatically.
Privacy is mutual
Do not screenshot and share conversations, record calls, or reveal someone’s identity. Expect the same in return. If you want to stay in touch, use Keep in Touch — it only works when both of you choose it.
How enforcement works
- Warning for a first minor issue.
- Mute or disconnect for repeated or escalating behaviour.
- Temporary suspension (hours to days) for serious breaches.
- Permanent ban for sexual content involving minors, threats, illegal content, or repeat offences — applied to the account, session, device and network where possible.
You can report someone during a conversation or afterwards from Recent Matches. Reports are reviewed by people, and abuse of the report button is itself a breach.